Let's Hear It For The Boys (title in honor of Footloose release)
I don't brag much (except for when I brag about not bragging very much).
I usually keep quiet about my kids' scholarships, accolades, awards and achievements.
But some things have happened recently that have proven irresistible for me to keep quiet about. Because out of everything my children have done, these things rank right up there as making me the MOST proud.
My daughter Daisy and I were at a wedding reception. We were visiting with a lady and in the middle of our conversation, she looked up at Daisy and said, "I want you to marry my grandson." Daisy gets requests like that fairly often. And nothing warms my heart more than having someone give the ultimate endorsement by wanting my daughter to be part of their family.
I received this Facebook message today from a mother in our community.
I love to hear good things kids do, so I thought you might like this. Today at the store your boys came up to me as I got to the car (lunch hour) and said hi and asked if I needed help with groceries! I said sure, but then "well I don't know what you can do - I am sort of stuck here" (no room to have them do anything from where I was parked). "Well, we can give moral support" was the response. They also congratulated me on Summer getting a scholarship and were so sincere. What cool kids. I know a lot of teens, and not many will approach an adult on their own. It was a small thing - a congrats and offer to help - but I was super impressed. Thanks for raising good kids!
Thanks to JBS for taking time to write me that note. Sharing those moments mean so much to parents. As it certainly did to me.
Well... as long as I'm on the subject, here is another thing
On Saturday evening, Possum, Otto and Andy, and I came home from being in Salt Lake. We walked into a spotless house. Even the front porch had been hosed off.
"Wow...what is the occasion?" I asked my dear darling daughter Daisy.
"I wanted you to start work with a clean house" Daisy replied (referring to my new job starting today after a three-year hiatus). Then this morning she left a note for me on the front door wishing me luck on my first day of work. She's like a dream mom. To her mom.
Ok.... now I'm on a roll
A few weeks ago, Andy woke up with a terrible pain in his calf. Watching him limp around the house, I asked, "why do you think you are cramping? Are you getting enough electrolytes?"
"I don't know. I haven't been drinking any milk," Andy, the gallon-a-day-milk-drinker said.
"Why?" I asked.
"Oh... just cuz" he replied in typical teen-age talk.
"Why haven't you been drinking milk?" I pushed.
"Cuz it's expensive." Andy hesitantly mumbled.
Tears welled up as I realized Andy was not drinking milk because my husband lost his job.
Ok...one more thing, because I just got an exciting phone call...hot off the press
TODAY, my oldest son got a job at the MTC. That isn't easy to do. It requires a multi-step process of interviews, teaching, and presentations. Lots of applicants. Few are hired.
My buttons are bursting.
I don't even know what to say. I'm speechless. I'm writing-less.
(see what I mean? blank space here....)
I am grateful. I am proud. I am blessed. That's all.
YASGILY Fab Four. YASGILY!!!